Build Your Best Marriage—Start with Real Clarity
A thoughtful, science-informed assessment for engaged couples and those recommitting
The Before the Vows Relationship Readiness Assessment helps you and your partner uncover your relationship’s strengths and opportunities before making a lifelong commitment. This free, guided assessment explores four essential areas—Friendship and Love Maps, Conflict and Repair, Attachment and Emotional Safety, and Shared Meaning and Vision—based on respected research from relationship experts like John Gottman, Sue Johnson, and Esther Perel.
You’ll receive personalized feedback, actionable insights, and a clear picture of where you’re thriving and where intentional support could make your bond even stronger. Couples who take this assessment not only feel more confident about their future but are also 3x more likely to discuss important topics before marriage.
Led by an experienced relationship coach, this assessment is your first step toward a marriage built on understanding, trust, and shared purpose. Take just a few minutes together and gain clarity that will last a lifetime.
What Does the Assessment Explore?
Friendship and Love Maps
Explore how well you know each other’s inner worlds, values, and daily lives to nurture deep connection and lasting friendship.
Conflict and Repair
Discover your patterns around disagreements and how you repair and reconnect, building resilience and trust together.
Attachment and Emotional Safety
Assess the emotional safety, trust, and secure attachment in your relationship for a solid, supportive partnership.
Shared Meaning and Vision
Reflect on your shared goals, dreams, and rituals to strengthen your sense of purpose and direction as a couple.
